Porn.the end justifies the means. If your not royalty with concubines or into 2-3 wives or maybe not a newlywed, most wives don't wanna be bothered toВ fuck everytime the guy gets a boner. I use porn, get lit, then go about my day. The only altnernative is to do nothing (yeah right or actually cheat (no thanks). ergo it's a form of release. If you abuse it, like anything, get help. Otherwise, don't knock it, because everyone does it or a form of it.