Seriously? Why should cis straight binary people work to make their queer-hostile spaces more queer-friendly, but queer people aren't obligated to make their queer-safe spaces more ally-inclusive? Is that really your question? Maybe because you guys have, oh, the entire world to, and we freakin dont. We only have the spaces we carved out for ourselves, and for many of us, those spaces are the only places we feel safe.